Comments on: Femininity, what is it anyway? http://beckscafe.com/2006/11/03/femininity-what-is-it-anyway/ Coffee, Chocolate & Love Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:36:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Rebecca http://beckscafe.com/2006/11/03/femininity-what-is-it-anyway/#comment-77 Wed, 08 Nov 2006 05:45:46 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/11/03/femininity-what-is-it-anyway/#comment-77 Hi Mandy!

Thank you for leaving your comment. In reading through the articles I posted, it’s really made me rethink the way I do things. In my past history I have to admit I had a hard time being non-conformist. It was until I started coming to grips with my trans-ness, my GID, that I started embracing the fact that I could be non-conformist and still be me.

Thanks again for leaving such an insightful comment,

Becki

]]> By: Mandy http://beckscafe.com/2006/11/03/femininity-what-is-it-anyway/#comment-76 Mon, 06 Nov 2006 16:32:09 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/11/03/femininity-what-is-it-anyway/#comment-76 I’ve always found it massively refreshing to be a nonconformist. To be rogue, to do my own thing on my own terms. It doesn’t save me from getting miscategorized by others, but it gives me the freedom to not care about it and to see everything a little bit more objectively, as well as the freedom to conform just as much as I choose, when I choose to. It helps me not to get stuck in concepts and categories, and to realize it when others do.

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