http://beckscafe.com/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/ Coffee, Chocolate & Love Fri, 18 Nov 2011 03:08:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://beckscafe.com/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-46 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:54:16 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-46 Hi Tanya, thank you so much for stopping by to drop a note; I’m glad this article was helpful. Making sense of the grief stages is it’s own process even as your note implies. And thanks for all you are doing as well for the community

]]> http://beckscafe.com/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-45 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:42:56 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-45 Welcome to my world Becca. After 3 years I and my family are still going through the grieving stages. Each time it gets a little better but it is not over completely yet. Stage 4 in What to do? is my hardest as there is no way I want to close the door. Recently, I tried to reach stage 5 in the grieving stages with my most accepting daughter and she said her siblings are not there yet. It hurts, but love will prevail. Stage six in What to do? is the easiest for me because of our mutual love for each other and our higher power.
Becca, this has helped me tremendously and I thank you. You are a friend indeed. Huggles

]]> http://beckscafe.com/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-44 Thu, 28 Jan 2010 11:42:37 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-44 Kelly, thank you for your comment and for reading; I am very glad this article was helpful

]]> http://beckscafe.com/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-43 Thu, 28 Jan 2010 04:40:44 +0000 http://sun.asmallorange.com/~becki/2006/06/12/understanding-and-coping-with-mourning-in-transgender-relationships/#comment-43 I am so lucky to have been introduced to you Becca. What appreciate about you is your very deep understanding of your own situation and thus my situation. This article was right on for me and for my life. I had actually brought the stages up at the support group tonight. Smart girls think alike. It is not anything i had not seen before but not in the transgender context. Thank you for adding this link in the email you really make a difference for me. You are really helping to keep me level headed about this journey.

]]>