April 2006

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extraordinary machine.jpg I had never heard of Fiona Apple until I went for some makeup lessons at M-A-C Cosmetics. I learned alot about how to do my makeup, and the added bonus was learning about Fiona Apple and her new Album, Extraordinary Machines. It is a very good album and it has meaning for many kinds of people. Two songs in particular, talk of the uniqueness of people and how amazing they either are or are becoming.

In the title track, “Extraordinary Machine” Fiona sings:

If there was a better way to go then it would find me

I can’t help the road just rolls out behind me

Be kind to me, or treat me mean

I’ll make the most of it, I’m an extraordinary machine

It’s a great line from a very well written, sung and produced song. And how many of us (trans or not) couldn’t identify with those verses. Coming to grips and hopefully at peace with our own lives, we may indeed come to the conclusion that if there was a better way to go, it would find you.

In “Better Version of Me” Fiona has some equally interesting lines:

I am likely to miss the main event

If I stop to cry or complain again

So I will keep a deliberate pace

Let the damned breeze dry my face

I won’t give away some other yummy tidbits from that song, but I think you’ll agree, when you listen, that it’s not just catchy, but it will give you pause to think as well. Maybe in your life and mine we’ll realize that stopping to cry and complain isn’t going to do anything, but keeping a deliberate pace moving forward will. Overall the album is well produced, it’s a joy to listen to. It is also uncommon music. What I mean by that is that it’s not the same top-40 watered down pap that you hear on the radio. It’s far better. With much more variety and excellent musical skills being demonstrated. And that not clinically, but richly with deep feeling. It’s really a joy to listen to.

Go pick up “Extraordinary Machines”, it’s a very good album, that is not only meaningful, but fun as well. At the end, you too may come to the conclusion that you are an Extraordinary Machine.

Having a near death experience with streptococcus got me thinking about alot of things. If such a small thing can so quickly destroy our health, what little things can so quickly help our health? Well there are a few that I used to consider unimportant, but now, I think they have alot of value and you might find this is true too. Each of these takes less than 5 minutes to do each (well except for one).

Flossing Your TeethI personally have real difficulty getting this to work for me. But, it’s tough for me to whine about this when flossing can reportedly add 6.4 years to your life! In fact, 21st Century Dental notes on their site some studies on flossing and health:

The best of these studies done at Emory University with the Centers for Disease Control, indicated that people with gingivitis and periodontitis have a mortality rate that is 23 percent to 46 percent higher than those who don’t… why? They are linked to increased rates of cardiovascular disease and stroke, as well as to an increase in mortality from other causes, such as infections.

Taking care of your feet
Obviously, I have an appendage fetish (I wrote about hands last week here , now feet, what??) in any event…would you let your hands look like the bottom of your feet, provided you actually looked at the bottom of your feet? If you have big cracks and fissures in your feet, going to the local drug store to buy some off the shelf anti-athlete’s food medicine isn’t likely to really fix the problem. Your probably going to need a prescription drug like Lamisil to really clear up the infection. Then you need to make your feet pretty - no ugly cracks and callouses! I’ve been using a foot emery board (also known as fine grit sand paper mounted to a stick) and Burt Bee’s Coconut foot creme. Vaseline works pretty well too, and is alot cheaper.

Washing your hands
We covered this one pretty well when I posted on hand washing at this link here. Suffice to say, wash ‘em!

Sleep
This is a toughie isn’t it? Of all the things you can do, this one is probably at the top of the list of important things but at the bottom of what we really do. Why is that? Guilt (”Oh no I’m actually resting!”), too big a todo list stealing hours when we should be resting, other more exciting things to do (like eating chocolate).

There is so much data on the benefits of a good nights sleep it’s hard to believe most of us simply don’t do it. To quote Dr. Ellington Darden in a chapter on sleep and recovery from exercise, from his excellent book, “A Flat Stomach ASAP“:

Your body is a complex factory that is constantly making hundreds of delicate changes to transform food and oxygen into many chemicals required by various parts of the system. But there is a limit to the chemical conversions that your recovery ability can make within a given time. If your requirements exceed the limit, your body will eventually be overwork to the point of collapse.

Important to note if you fall asleep while driving. Some states are trying to put accidents caused by drivers who fall asleep into the same category as accidents caused by the driver being drunk.

You can find reams of information on sleeping on the net, most of it accurate (click to this Yahoo search link for a few of them here). But let me just highlight a few points (from page 67, “A Flat Stomach ASAP”, and the APA)

  • Sleeping in 90 minute increments is best. That’s a complete sleep cycle in which your body goes through normal sleep, rem sleep, and then normal sleep again. Practically, this means 7.5 hours of sleep will be better for you than 8 or 7 due to it being six 90 minute cycles
  • Having trouble figuring out complex issues? Sleep on it. That’s when your brain works out complex problems. Your much more likely to have the solution in the morning Can’t sleep because of the complex issue keeping you awake? Don’t take a shot of whiskey! Instead, write the problem out on a piece of paper, sort of placing it to the side in a sense.
  • Do you have a few pounds to shed before lounging at the beach this Summer? Sleepers (those with 7 hours or more on their pillow) are much more able to control their appetite and as a result their eating. While those who sleep 6 hours or less put their bodies under stress. The body responds many times by craving carbohydrates (can you say a whole bag of Oreo’s!!)

Fish Oil
No you won’t grow fins, scales and crave krill. BUT you will have healthier skin and hair, strengthen your immune system and reduce your risk of both cancer and heart disease! Wow, now that sounds fishy doesn’t it? Well fish oil will do that for you. It’s so proven that the American Heart Association recommends it (see info here). BUT (there’s alway a but buttin’ in…) Most fish are spoiled with mercury, so it’s wise to consider a supplement that actually screens that out. There are two that I know of, there are probably alot more. One is Carlson’s Brand Fish Oil and the other is from the Stop Aging Now website (note, Beck’s Cafe gets no reimbursement for pointing you to those links, we just want to be nice to you :) ).

So, to ward off some of the little nasties that can fell you, try the little giants to get health on your side.

coffe cup.jpg Hi and welcome to the new home for Beck’s Cafe :) We’ve moved here from Typepad, where the URL was http://beckscafe.typepad.com. The Typepad site will degrade over time and then disappear in July.

We are here using our own little copy of Wordpress and selfhosting at A Small Orange. Thank You’s are due to the template’s original designer Andreas Viklund which was Ported by Ainslie Johnson. To make it work for Beck’s Cafe I had to put some love into it of course!

*just a little p.s.* All links, categories and archives have been copied from the Typepad site to this new blog. So if you have a favorite article you bookmarked, you might want to consider changing the bookmark to reflect the permalinks from our new site.

Okay quick question - how many of you brainstorm best when your (a) hunched in front of your computer (b) in a room with a whiteboard and markers or someplace quiet like a library with a pad of paper and pencils?

If you answered (b) your taking a low tech approach and that may be a key to doing better and thinking smarter when you need a breakthrough. Jeanne Sessum over at Blogher wrote about this at this link here, and the original article was posted at Working Solo, which you can read here.

The thoughts they share on using low tech to make a breakthrough is worth giving serious consideration too. In fact, when working out this blog, I used *gasp* PAPER and PENCIL to outline:
* layout
* my publishing schedule (YOU have a publishing schedule Becki? uh Huh *cough* a loosely defined one)
* And how I wanted the flow to feel.

And I’m doing the same on my next blog too (ahh if only php and html were that simple!…)

And for stuff that people actually pay me money for (read: work) I use a HUGE white board (the size of a wall actually) to draw and make lines and arrows…because when you sit back and see the big picture you can actually think about the problem at a high and more integrated level. This is very important to solve a host of issues in your job - and in life. Going low tech allows you to see connections and patterns you wouldn’t otherwise. In some ways it actually empowers your brain to think “outside of the box”. That’s something we can all use as jobs get more competitive and creative solutions more needed.

peepin cash.jpg My spouse sent me this and it has to be about the funniest thing I’ve seen in a long time. Pioneer Press held it’s third annual Pioneer Press Marshmallow Peeps Diorama contest. Basically, it’s a contest to use Marshmallow Peeps (that’d be them marshmallow thingies that come out about this time of year over Easter…you know, the ones that whack your children with such a sugar high you have to scrape them off the ceiling) in the most creative diorama settings. The imaginations of these people is pretty impressive. Now we just need “Peeps Blogging” to finsih the set! If you want to see all the fun of the contestants in the Pioneer Press Marshmallow Peeps Diorama contest, just click this link HERE.

potato.jpg For those of you who remember the infamous Potato Salad Showdown last year (to read that link click here) well it’s here again. The first words out of my family’s mouth? “Please don’t make the Salad of Science”. Guess I’m down before the 2006 showdown even starts!

You can get the [Potato] Salad of Love recipe at this link here
Oh you can also persuse over 143 Potato Salad Recipes and have your own showdown. Click this link here at The Food Network for all those yummy recipes.

techiedivelogo100.jpgTechie Diva’s site is truly fun site to visit if you like techie toys. And you can occassionally find a bargain there too :)

There is an amazing essay at Jade Catherine’s site that is well worth reading. The link to her essay is here. This exerpt gave me pause to think:

There is an immense crisis in the world. Where does helping the miserable and the helpless fall in the priorities of Jesus’ people? If you go around churches and Christian circles and listen to what’s being discussed and watch what’s being done - what will that say about our priorities and our passion? What do we truly care about?

“He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the alien, giving him food and clothing.”
- Deut 10:18

hand_washing_barsoap.jpg When I entrusted my very sick body to the wonderful team at my local hospital (as I wrote about here), I didn’t think twice if they were clean or not. I was near death and frankly, it just wasn’t on the top of my mind. But as I’ve slowly recovered, I read an interesting article in the April 5th, 2005 Wall Street Journal entitled, “Hospitals Get Aggressive about Hand Washing”. I was surprised, to say the least, about what doesn’t happen to keep the bacteria out of the hospital. I had no idea that hospital infections themselves are a critical problem effecting patient care. Well isn’t that a bit disturbing! And it seems the simple act of handwashing can cut those infections in hospitals dramatically - but it works outside of hospitals just as well too.

Some of the statistics are interesting regarding hand washing and how amazingly effective this simple step is to keeping ourselves and others health. Read the rest of this entry »

Lucent & Alcatel

As everyone may have heard by now, Lucent Technologies and Alcatel are on the way to wedded corporate bliss.  You can read about it at this link here.  This is probably a good thing for them financially.  Lucent’s profits were coming more from their pension plan investments than from their business, and that couldn’t have gone on much longer really.  From a technology standpoint, it looks like it makes sense.  Alcatel now has a wireless play when before they did not.  Also, Lucent’s Professional Services organization gives Alcatel a boost up since Alcatel didn’t really have one before. 

I think for me though, it’s a sad loss of the Bell Labs Research Institution.  I’m all for companies being stronger and more able (though frankly the record of that happening in mega mergers like this is very low, please see stories about the lack of success of megamergers here @ C/net, and here @ HBR).  But the United State’s private corporate labs (such as Bell Labs) and our public labs (such as Lawrence Livermore) are national treasures that helped keep our country a technology leader.  For sure, Bell Labs won’t disappear and the defense piece will be kept in tact under U.S. influence.  Still, this just feels like a sort of dismantling of some national treasures.

What were the causes of Lucent’s demise?  Probably too many to list, but there’s a well done article on this by Chinese blogger  Dr.Richard Zhao Liang (赵粮) that is well worth a read.  You can see his article at this link here.

LaughterI saw two specials the other day on Comedy Central.  Both were hosted by comics.  One was a woman, the other a man.   The woman was significantly funnier than the man was.  Their styles were different too. She was more self-deprecating, and not afraid to be "naked" as we say in the blogosphere, when it came to how she joked about life, her travels through it, and her observations of it.  And the crowd was laughing out loud.   

The man’s humor was different.  It was more one liners and more challenges to the audience that they had better laugh, his material was funny!  His flow was off too, probably just a bad night, but while he is a funny, national headliner for comics, he seemed more prone to goad the audience into laughing about his material than telling a story to have them laugh with him.  It was an interesting contrast between the two.

That got me to wondering about humor between men and women.  Have you ever wondered how they differ or are the same?   Well there’s a great article, written by Gina Barreca, at Ms. Magazine entitled  "Real stories, real laughter, real women" that I think you might like that talks about this.

Gina Barreca makes this interesting observation about the differences:

The difference, in fact, between men’s humor and women’s humor seems to
be the difference between revolt and revolution. Masculine humor has of
course included digs at the conventions of the world, poked fun at the
institutions and establishments, but without the truly anarchic edge
that characterizes feminine humor. Women’s humor calls into question
the largest issues, questions the way the world is put together.

She also makes note that feminine humor has been and is often hidden:

Why has the feminine tradition of humor, ubiquitous as it is, remained
essentially hidden from the mainstream? In part it is due to the
Tupperware mentality that sought to preserve humor by keeping away from
the potentially hazardous male gaze. If men didn’t find funny what we
found funny, then they would think we were foolish. If they thought our
joking was foolish, we might learn to like it less ourselves. It wasn’t
worth the risk.

You can read the whole article for yourself by clicking to this link here.

(photo courtesy of benhamin’s photos, used under Creative Commons license)

Wolves_at_the_door_1

You would never know it from looking at
her, but she had a prosthetic leg, had been through WWII, worked at a
spy for both the British and the U.S. and had received the highest
medals for distinguished service from Britain, France and the United
States for her work in WWII.  If it weren’t for her pivotal role, key
parts of the war against Germany in France would not have been won by
the Allies.

The book, "The Wolves at the Door:
The True Story of America’s Greatest Female Spy" penned by
Judith L. Pearson is a fabulous true story of Virgina Hall.  Born in
the United States, yet with an incredible passion for Europe,
particularly France, Virginia accomplished more in her lifetime than
most people even dream of.  Perhaps the best part of the story though
is not what she accomplished but the obstacles she had to get over in
order to accomplish them.  I won’t spoil the story for you, but those
obstacles were physical in terms of her body, and discrimination, for
being a woman.  In the end, her amazing tenacity and inventiveness
and sheer passion for her life’s mission - being a spy and helping to
defeat the German’s - allowed her to rise above and triumph.

The book is one of those little
treasures.  Well written and about a niche topic that is very
valuable to read.  I highly recommend it.   Grab some tea, curl up on
a couch, and read!

You can get the book at your fav book store or at Amazon by clicking on this link here

I was perusing Caprice’s Glob and saw her litte link to a new site titled, “Transgender Workplace Diversity. It looks like a great resource. Back in September of 2005 I had posted a similar resource from Laura 5’s site, she had listed some excellent articles on workplace gender policies there. You can snaggle back to that September ‘05 post and the links to that resource by clicking here.

4/1/2007 Update
The site, Laura5, has been permanently disabled by the owner.

As I posted here, I’m eventually taking the BIG leap off Typepad to my very own little home at A Small Orange with Wordpress. As I’ve been setting things up one tool I’ve needed to use is FTP (File Transfer Protocol - click over to Wikipedia for a tutorial here). FTP is a very common and perhaps one of the most basic of file transferring technology over the Internet. It’s a tool you really need if you have your own remote hosted server someplace in the universe (which is how remote hosted servers usually work - you don’t have them they are “remote”). Basically it allows you to transfer files easily from the computer you generally use to the remote one. Right now I am writing this article on a Dell Lattitude D600 in my cozy little office. But then it got posted to Typepad to you could all enjoy it :) Easy to use FTP programs are a joy. Hard to use ones will make you gray and give you agita.

There’s many different kinds to use, though they all basically work the same. You load the program onto your computer, click on the little icon, tell it where your remote host is and voila, your can start moving files over to the other computer at will and at ease. There are many you could use from for your WindowsXP desktop, such as Ipswich WS_FTP and Globalscape CuteFTP. Both are very highly rated but they will run you $39 for the package with no support. And at the Frugal Tech, we do love a bargain, so we’ve hunted down something that works as well, and, is far cheaper. Free in fact.

The program is called FileZilla and it rocks. You can learn about it from this link here. FileZilla is a fast FTP and SFTP (secureFTP, for extra privacy on your transfers) program for Windows with a lot of features. There is even a server side version (if you so desire one). The license for this software is under the GNUGPL (General Public License) meaning that it is free for you to use or to tell and give to others. Just don’t sell it, that’s a no-no.

FileZilla makes me hot ….purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr …. it’s free, it’s supported, it’s got neat license, and it works!!…….get it here, Note, there are like 4 or 5 zip programs. I was confused for like a day until I realized you only need to download the zip package that is labeled: “FileZilla_2_2_19a_setup.exe” All the others you won’t need. Download that file to your computer, then click on it and run it and you’ll be as happy as I am :).
(Oh, for MAC users out there, you might want to try CyberDuck, I’ve heard it is fabulous, though I have no personal experience with it).

**update 06/17/06**  The current version as of this update is 2.2.2.4b and the right file to download is “FileZilla_2_2_24b_setup.exe”

Oil_rigs As I’m sure you’ve noticed, gasoline is getting more, not less expensive. Indeed, on a per gallon basis we’ll like hit $3 by the Summer high driving season here in the United States. Of course, Europe has always had expensive gasoline, but in the U.S. we sort of take pride in our ability to get up and go, and to have as few barriers in our way when going.

The need for gasoline drives the need for the oil to make it of course. With oil reserves reported to be falling, logic says that the time to think through our alternatives is now, (see counter argument that we have more not less oil at this link here or go see an interesting article that oil may actually be a renewable resource at this link here) Those alternatives could and likely should be in alternative energies that are (a) more sustainable, (b) get the U.S. more energy independence.

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Peering_at_the_business_language_1…..”Now what does this mean???”

Just when you thought you’d heard enough jargon to choke a horse in business, here’s the new buzzwords so you can impress your boss and befuddle your colleagues, (source material courtesy of the March 27, 2006 Wall Street Journal).

  • Delayering - The process of reducing organizational layers by firing the middle management
  • Web 2.0 - Second generation of services available on the World Wide Web that lets people collaborate, and share information online; generally the applications “feel” more like desktop applications. Using it in your business plan is also a nifty way to get some venture dough!
  • Knowledge Acquisition - Hiring people who know how to get the job done
  • Unsiloing - Being able to cooperate across departments, share resources, cross-sell products and basically learn to work as a team in an organization, one department or business unit to the next.
  • Execution - Used to be known as strategy, which was the endless talk of planning to do something to execute. In todays world, we skip strategy (andthinking) and just execute.
  • Volume Sensitive Business - A business with massive fixed costs (and no way to cover them). Niche Strategy - Perhaps should rightly be worded, “niche execution”, it simply means your company is a small, insignificant player.
  • Limited Downside - code word for “things can’t get much worse”

Purging

What do you think of when you read the word “purge”? There’s probably a few things that come to mind like:

  • Purging the attic of all the stuff you’ve accumulated the past say, 15 years
  • Purging yourself of food if you happen to suffer from a purging eating disorder
  • If your a plastics processor, you might be thinking of a purging compound to help in the removal of stubborn residues between color or resin changes.

But if your transgendered, purging is about that little ugly secret that those of us who are transgendered don’t talk about much. It’s that one thing that is the tease of a “cure” to having GID (gender identity disorder) that is based on self-reliance and a white knuckles attempt at changing who you are at your most basic level.

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I’ve been blogging here at Typepad for a bit and overall it’s been pretty nice. There’s alot of things I like about Typepad (pretty easy to post and pretty easy to just design a blog and focus on writing), and some things I’m not very fond of (down time, lag time, comment spam). So we’re going to pack up and move to some new digs over the next month or so. I’ll be blogging here @ Typepad until further notice, but basically I’ll be moving to a Wordpress self-hosted blog. I’ve been looking really closely at it and there is lots to like (this thing called Akismet to kill spam, lots of plug-ins, and the fact that it looks like a better tool for writing, oh and the recommendations here and here).