My Husband Betty

Helen Boyd is the author of one of the best books on dealing with living with someone with who is transgendered from the spouse’s (most particularly the wife’s)  perspective.  If your married, I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to understand your spouse’s point of view, it goes a long way to helping  you both communicate on your very real transgender (GID) issues.  Whether your male-to-female or female-to-male I’d suggest you take a look at her book.  This book was very important to me in understanding my wife’s point of view.  For my wife, she was able to at last read something from another genetic woman who’s husband is transgendered and who did not necessarily think their situation was all "wonderful" nor all "terrible".  It’s well researched, well written, and well worth reading.   

Helen’s journal, (en)gender, is at this link here.

You can buy the book from Amazon at this link here.