Them T-Girl Blues

Things I will never for the life of me figure out about being a t-girl…

  • You don’t know you have an issue until…you see yourself, or you dress or you do something to affirm yourself as a woman, then, all of a sudden you feel light, fresh, energized, happy, no longer depressed. It’s as if you went from stuffy closet to a green grassed park with blue skies. I will never ever understand this.
  • How no matter how amazing another trans-woman can look, she can still totally act like a guy - and how some trans-woman simply can’t get beyond a very plain look, yet are truly feminine to their toes.
  • Why society makes such a big deal about something we have no control over - whether Male-to-Female or Female-to-Male. Truly, what we do with who we are is in our control, but how we got here isn’t.